Knowing you are ready for Matrimonial
With the million things that are going on in your life at any point of time, we seldom forget to prioritize the most important factor of our live. Finding ourselves the perfect life partner with whom we can share our lives with. But first, how do you know you are in the emotional and mental position to commit yourself to holy matrimonial? Ask yourself the following questions:
Why do you want to get married?
Be completely honest with yourself when you answer this question. Evaluate the reasons behind why you would like to spend the rest of your life with this person. You could also make a list of pros and cons about your relationship with him or her and even the person.
A marriage is a commitment for life and you must be prepared to be there for your partner through thick and thin of their best as well as worst days. If you find any aspect of quality in your partner that you believe may hinder your relationship, it must be talked about before you bind you and your partner in matrimonial.
How well do you know yours partners past?
This is extremely important especially in the case of arranged marriages. You must try to share and exchange as much information about each other’s past as possible. However idealistic it may sound to leave the past behind, knowing things about your partner from a time when you weren’t in his or her life makes a big difference in getting to know them overall. If you have nothing to hide, you must take this a positive step towards building a strong bond with each other.
Additionally, knowing something about the past can also act as a great predictor of the future. You will be able to learn from the past and understand how to behave around them during the life that you wish to set for yourselves in the future.
A marriage versus a Wedding
Many times, couples tend to get caught up in the excitement of planning a wedding as an event and miss out on planning a marriage that is soon to follow. It is natural to be worried and get cold feet, provided you maintain an open communication that is built on maturity and trust, there is no reason why you will not be prepared for the matrimonial.
Summary
Many couples tend to get cold feet just before the wedding because they are not sure whether they are ready to take such an important step in life. Some self-realization and evaluation can help you make the right decision in life.