Do’s & Don’t while selecting your Life Partner
Weddings in India might be stressful but your biggest confusion while searching for your life partner can be solved by keeping these simple points in mind. All you have to do is stay calm and trust your instincts. Take your time and find someone that is a good friend and an amazing spouse.
There is no rocket science behind this process, just follow the below points and throw your confusion away.
Well, we all carry a list while shopping why not make one for your partner too. Here’s what you need to look for –
Room for Respect
The secret to a happy married life is ‘Respect’. If you can’t admire each other, you can’t live with each other. The fuel to your beautiful relationship is having respect for each other and considering your partner as your equal. The boat to a long and happy married life can sail smoothly if you respect your partner and let them play an important role in your life.
Check for Compatibility
Imagine ending up with a person who likes pineapple on pizza! There is nothing wrong with having someone that has a complete different taste but not all surprises are welcomed. Your compatibility matters while selecting your partner. You maybe a chai person who meets a coffee person but if you guys are comfortable with each others choices that’s when you know that you have found the one you were looking for.
Don’t cross your comfort zone
Bond over food, sports, fashion, your profession and frame your next question. Meeting new people might be a bit difficult and since it is temporary we don’t mind getting out of our comfort zone and mingle with them. But you cannot live like this. When someone doesn’t match your vibe, just go with a clear NO. Don’t make hasty decisions just because you are in a hurry or this is the 20th person this month. Decisions that affect your life need patience. Just chill and enjoy the process.
Wait & Date
You cannot know everything about someone by just meeting them once. Spending time will help you in knowing them better. It is important to know the likes and dislikes of the person you are going to spend time with. When you date them and explore different places with them, you can come across various sides of the same person. You have more time to ask any question and develop your bond. This will also help in building trust with the person and will help you solve your confusion about the new person in your life.
Decisions related to your life are not meant to be easy. Choosing your life partner is like breathing, you have to do it yourself no one else will do it for you! There is no formula to this but you can definitely stick to the above points and look for your better half.